bareMinerals Vapor is a cool silver with a metallic finish that is permanent and retails for $12.00. In comparison, NARS L'Amour, Toujours L'Amour #9 is a cool gray with a pearl finish that is discontinued and retails for $25.00.
NARS L'Amour, Toujours L'Amour #9 is 80% similar — it is darker, more muted.