theBalm #19 is a warm taupe with a frost finish that is permanent and retails for $6.50. In comparison, NARS L'Amour, Toujours L'Amour #11 is a warm taupe with a frost finish that is discontinued and retails for $25.00.
NARS L'Amour, Toujours L'Amour #11 is 90% similar — it is darker.