ColourPop Softie is a neutral lavender with a frost finish that is permanent in palette and retails for $4.50. In comparison, ColourPop Very Merry Unbirthday is a warm pink with a pearl finish that is limited edition and retails for $4.50.
ColourPop Very Merry Unbirthday is 90% similar — it is less shimmery, lighter, cooler.