About the site - an entry is 'closed' (Barts look)

[Calico]

Hey, i'm back online, i didnt even read the comments! LOL! I just wanted type, and i couldnt! I read them now, and people seem to get angry. It was obv a experimental look, cos she only did one eye. People are funny you know...
Thanks guys

[Moonspell]

Originally Posted by BRosa

I don't always like every look I see, so I have some options: I kept my mouth shut, emphasize on the good things or give CC in what I think it's a respectful way.

I feel the same Beda and I hope your words always echo in the community.
Well said!

[Temptalia]

There were several comments deleted because they were entirely inappropriate and completely irrelevant. I take issue when anyone feels that it is okay to make mailcious, rude, or offensive comments. I delete them as I see them, but if several are being made (and I am just not around 100% of the time), the comments will be closed (as they were in this instance).

The glitter debate did get slightly out of hand, but the majority of the comments deleted had nothing to do with glitter or safety whatsoever, and this was the primary reason I closed the post.

As an aside, constructive criticism does not get deleted but hurtful and cruel comments do. Even comments that are borderline are not deleted. I just have no tolerance for rude comments, most especially on readers' looks or posts. I hope you can understand my policy!

[BRosa]

Of course we do understand Christine. That kind of actions on your side is what keep the website and forum hate-rude-negative free.




Share the love guys!

[MizVee]

I agree. I love this forum for the fact that if I post an FOTD for c/c, no one is going to rip me to shreds. We all respect each other (I hope!) and there's no holier-than-thou attitudes.

[Moonspell]

Of course we respect and understand your policy Christine, we are in the same side!

[Rue]

Originally Posted by BRosa

You know, I read the comments and I just think there are ways to say things without hurting other people and without embellishing or resting importance to what you want to say. It's not about telling people what they want to hear, it's about speaking up your mind causing a positive and constructive reaction on those you're trying to reach.

As soon as I saw this look, I immediately thought it was something very artistic. I know it's not something you would wear to pick up your kids or going out for dinner. Therefore my opinion about it is that I think it's really creative.

We as human beings and better, as women, need to be more understanding and patient with all that's around us, acknowledge that everyone comes from different backgrounds, accept those things that make us different (and unique!) and appreciate it all.

It's good to comment or criticize, but it's better to make something constructive about it. I don't always like every look I see, so I have some options: I kept my mouth shut, emphasize on the good things or give CC in what I think it's a respectful way.

I see many of you here are that way and that's what I like about this community: we have a good sense of respect.

And now I'll shut up...LOL

i'm late reading this, but i so agree with everything you just said beda...

[Trace]

^um.. what?

[Rue]

I think it's a spam bot..

[Hinahon]

I agree, there's a way of saying things. I tend to argue a lot on music forums with people because of that.
For the looks itself, even if i don't really like the colors because they're not my style, I love the creativity. I mean, even if you have to take it off right after, i love the idea of using Dazzleglass for eye make up